What is the truth about adoption today?

Adoption looks very different today than it did in years past and knowing the facts is the only way to navigate the misconceptions. You may have overlooked adoption as an option, but it can be a healthy and positive compromise between abortion and parenting.

Adoption allows you to:

• Pursue your previous life goals and plans
• Live independently
• Parent when you are ready
• Avoid the financial responsibility of traditional parenting
• Choose the type of relationship you have with the baby's father
• Give life to a new baby, who you can hold, name and love
• Have continued contact with that child as he or she grows older
• Feel good about the decision to give someone a chance to survive

Planning your child's future is one of the biggest decisions you will ever make. Whether you choose parenting, abortion or adoption, you will want to make an informed decision. Here are some things that may surprise you about adoption today:

You choose the adoptive couple and can meet them personally. Choose from highly screened families with biographies and pictures.

You can receive information about your child after the adoption in the form of letters and picture’s so you can know about their progress.

You have the opportunity to share your thoughts with your child through letters, pictures or whatever creative way best suites you. Your child will know that this decision was done in love.

You can hold your baby, name your baby, and spend time with your baby while in the hospital and prior to your baby going home with the family you have chosen.

You are able to receive support and counseling if you desire it. It is important to “know that you know” that this is the right decision for you. You can change your mind anytime prior to the placement.

If you need financial assistant for practical things like rent, food, clothing etc., it can be provided to you during your pregnancy and up to 6 weeks post partum.

At a Woman’s Place, we are here to support you and your decision. With no pressure from us, you are free to make a decision or even to change your mind mid-stream. We just want the best decision for you and your baby. Contact us today to talk to a counselor more about adoption.

Learn more on Frequently Asked Questions about Adoption.